TY - BOOK AU - Gordon,Thomas AU - Sands,Judith Gordon TI - P.E.T. in action SN - 0671224069 AV - HQ769 .G689 U1 - 649/.1 PY - 1976/// CY - [New York] PB - Wyden Books KW - Parent and child KW - United States KW - Child rearing KW - Parents et enfants KW - �Etats-Unis KW - �Education des enfants KW - fast N1 - Includes bibliographical references (pages 354-360) and index; Parents are blamed but not trained -- Parents are persons, not gods -- How to listen so kids will talk to you: the language of acceptance -- Putting your active listening skill to work -- How to listen to kids too young to talk much -- How to talk so kids will listen to you -- Putting "I-messages" to work -- Changing unacceptable behavior by changing the environment -- Inevitable parent-child conflicts: who should win? -- Parental power: necessary and justified? -- The "no-lose" method for resolving conflicts -- Parents' fears and concerns about the "no-lose" method -- Putting the "no-lose" method to work -- How to avoid being fired as a parent -- How parents can prevent conflicts by modifying themselves -- The other parents of your children ER -