TY - BOOK AU - Clark,Donald H. TI - Loving someone gay SN - 0890878374 AV - HQ76.2.U5 C57 1997 U1 - 306.76/62 21 PY - 1997/// CY - Berkeley, Calif. PB - Celestial Arts KW - Male homosexuality KW - United States KW - Homosexuality KW - fast N1 - Includes index; 1. Our place in the world -- 2. Growing up gay -- 3. Invisibility, opprssion and self-concept -- 4. Pressures and attempts to conform -- 5. Awareness and community -- 6. Gay rewards -- 7. Developing the gift -- 8. Right, wrong, good and bad -- 9. Uncovering emotions -- 10. Gay, straight, bi and other categories -- 11. Telling -- 12. Finding support -- 13. Your one and only body -- 14. Attraction, rejection and intrusion -- 15. Touch, talk, sex and intimacy -- 16. Relationship tending -- 17. Loss, grief and recovery -- 18. Changing in time -- 19. Pride, prejudice and style -- 20. Learning the truth -- 21. Acceptance, communication, appreciation -- 22. Parents -- 23. Wives and husbands -- 24. Sons and daughters -- 25. Sisters and brothers -- 26. Relatives, friends and neighbors -- 27. The psychology of gay identity -- 28. Basic ground rules -- 29. Helping -- 30. Being professional -- 32. Style and technique -- 33. Teachers and librarians -- 34. Physicians and nurses -- 35. Clergy -- 36. Psychotherapists and counselors -- 37. Massage therapists and professional companions -- 38. Police, judges and lawmakers -- 39. Researchers -- 40. Me and the third edition ER -