TY - BOOK AU - Ohlemacher,Janet TI - Desperate to be needed: freeing the family from chemical codependency T2 - Lifelines for recovery SN - 0310518415 AV - HV5132 .O48 1990 U1 - 362.29/23 20 PY - 1990/// CY - Grand Rapids, Mich. PB - Pyranee Books KW - Alcoholics KW - Family relationships KW - Codependency KW - Alcoholism KW - Religious aspects KW - Christianity KW - Families KW - Nuclear families KW - Codependency, Psychological KW - Family KW - Nuclear Family KW - Alcooliques KW - Relations familiales KW - Cod�ependance KW - Alcoolisme KW - Familles KW - alcoholism KW - aat KW - fast N1 - Includes bibliographical references; It isn't fair -- Flying high, feeling low -- Family heroes, scapegoats and lost children -- "The enablers" -- prolonging the agony -- Programs designed to help -- Codependents have feelings, too -- Damaged self-esteem -- "My brother's keeper" -- A "care"frontation -- Recovery: healing the real hurts -- Choices -- The end is just the beginning ER -